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Storytelling for Children: Building Connections Through Reading - By Zaid K. Maaytah, The Jordan Times

 

 

For generations, storytelling has been one of the ways through which humans have passed knowledge, values and experiences to their children, and reading together continues that tradition by opening a child's world to language, imagination and curiosity, while creating a distinctive bond between parent and child through attention, conversation and discovery, it encourages children to follow a story, anticipate what comes next and ask questions, abilities that take on particular importance today as they grow up in an environment of short, rapidly changing content and constant stimulation.
 
Yet recognising the value of reading does not necessarily make it part of everyday family life, and looking at the issue from a behavioural angle helps explain why, parents may value reading with their children, but intentions compete with tiredness, work, responsibilities and postponement, while children face a different equation, they are unlikely to care about the educational benefits reading may bring years later, what matters to them is whether the experience is enjoyable now, encouraging reading therefore involves two connected behaviours, giving parents a reason to make it part of family life, and giving children a reason to want the experience again.
 
Promoting reading among children should therefore consider what the experience means to parents as well as children, presenting reading mainly as an educational responsibility can easily turn it into another task parents feel they should perform for their child's future, while its value can also be much more immediate, reading together creates a space for conversation and connection, where a child's questions, reactions and interpretations can give parents a window into how they think, what captures their imagination and sometimes what they feel, presenting reading as a shared experience rather than simply an educational chore can therefore give parents a reason to value the moment itself, not only the benefits it may produce years later.
 
For children, the challenge is different, reading needs to capture their interest in the present, giving them choice, creating anticipation and allowing them to participate can all make the experience more attractive, this is also where gamification can be useful, by borrowing some of the elements that make games engaging, such as visible progress, anticipation and a sense of achievement, reading can become a journey in which children progress through stories, take part in collective challenges or look forward to discovering what comes next, making the experience itself something they want to continue rather than something they do simply because they are told it is good for them.
 
The wider environment can reinforce these efforts through social norms, when children see reading around them and parents see other families making it part of everyday life, reading becomes more visible as something families normally do together, community or even region-wide initiatives can help create this sense of participation and make reading more socially visible, how these efforts reach families is equally important, during early childhood healthcare establishments can provide valuable points of contact because parents encounter them at moments when their child's development is already at the centre of their attention, nurseries and kindergartens can play a role where relevant, while public schools and libraries become increasingly important as children grow and begin developing a more independent relationship with reading.
 
Encouraging reading ultimately requires more than providing access to reading material or communicating its educational value, it requires understanding what makes the experience meaningful to parents, what makes a child want to return to it, and how the environment around them can make reading more visible and easier to sustain, the objective should not simply be to raise children who know how to read, but to help create a relationship with reading that becomes part of how they learn, imagine, communicate and understand the world around them.
 

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